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You pick up your phone for five minutes.
One video becomes another. Then another. You check the news. Open Instagram. Watch a few Shorts. Read comments. Check WhatsApp. Return to Instagram.
Suddenly, 45 minutes have disappeared.
And somehow, you don't even feel refreshed.
You may feel mentally tired, restless, distracted or simply disappointed that you spent another part of your day staring at a screen.
This is where doomscrolling can become a problem.
Doomscrolling generally refers to repeatedly consuming upsetting, stressful or negative online content, often for longer than intended. Mental-health organizations note that this kind of repeated exposure can leave people feeling anxious, sad or overwhelmed.
But there is an important point that often gets missed:
You don't necessarily need to delete the internet.
The internet is useful for work, education, communication, entertainment and staying connected with people.
The goal is to create a healthier relationship with it—and replace some mindless scrolling with things that actually give your day meaning.
Here are 15 things you can do instead of scrolling.
You don't need a gym membership or a complicated workout.
Put your phone away and walk around your neighborhood, garden, building or nearby safe area.
Even a short walk creates a physical break from sitting and looking at a screen.
If your mind feels overloaded, don't turn the walk into another opportunity to consume content.
Leave the headphones behind sometimes.
Notice the surroundings.
Look at the sky.
Feel the air.
Let your mind be quiet.
This sounds almost too simple.
That's precisely why it works as an alternative to scrolling.
Make tea, coffee or another drink you enjoy.
Sit somewhere comfortable.
Don't automatically open your phone.
Give yourself ten minutes to simply enjoy the experience.
Small moments of attention can help break the automatic pattern of:
boredom → phone → scrolling.
Short-form content trains you to expect something new every few seconds.
Try doing the opposite.
Read:
Start with just five pages.
You don't have to read for an hour.
The goal is to remind yourself that information doesn't always need to arrive in 20-second pieces.
Send a message to someone you genuinely care about.
Better still, call them.
Ask:
How are you doing?
Not:
What did you post today?
Real conversations are different from consuming hundreds of people's updates.
You don't need hundreds of online interactions to have a meaningful day.
Sometimes one genuine conversation is worth more than an hour of scrolling.
If you have children, put your phone away and give them your complete attention.
You could:
Children don't necessarily need elaborate activities.
Sometimes they simply want your attention.
And giving them your attention also gives you a break from the digital world.
Don't decide that you're going to reorganize your entire house.
Choose one thing:
One drawer.
One shelf.
One cupboard.
One table.
Set a timer for 10 minutes.
Clean it.
Then stop.
You'll have something tangible to show for those ten minutes.
That's very different from scrolling for ten minutes and having nothing to remember afterward.
Cooking can turn passive screen time into an active experience.
Try preparing:
You can even make cooking a family activity.
The goal isn't to become a chef.
It's simply to do something with your hands instead of endlessly moving your thumb.
For Muslims, stepping away from the phone can also be an opportunity to reconnect with Allah.
You might:
Instead of reaching for your phone whenever your mind becomes uncomfortable, try sitting quietly for a few minutes.
You don't always have to fill every empty moment with information.
If you're going to spend time online, make some of that time intentional learning rather than algorithmic consumption.
You could learn:
There is a huge difference between:
Opening YouTube and letting the algorithm choose what you watch
and
Opening YouTube because you have a specific lesson you want to learn.
One is passive consumption.
The other is purposeful use.
Sometimes scrolling isn't really about entertainment.
You may be trying to escape a thought.
You're worried about money.
You're stressed about work.
You're angry with someone.
You're worried about your children.
You're uncertain about the future.
Instead of immediately opening an app, take a piece of paper and write:
What am I worried about?
Then:
Can I do anything about it today?
If yes, write down one small action.
If no, acknowledge that you cannot solve everything immediately.
Writing doesn't solve every problem, but it can help turn a vague worry into something you can examine.
Creativity doesn't have to mean painting a masterpiece.
Try:
You don't need to publish the result.
You don't even need to be good at it.
Do it because you enjoy making something.
If it is safe and practical where you live, go outside.
Sit on a balcony.
Walk in a park.
Water plants.
Spend time in a garden.
Watch the sunset.
Have a conversation outdoors.
The point isn't to create another perfect Instagram moment.
In fact, try leaving the camera alone.
Experience the moment instead of documenting it.
You don't need an intense workout.
Try:
If you have a medical condition, injury, or other limitation, choose activity appropriate for your situation and seek professional guidance when necessary.
The important thing is to replace automatic scrolling with movement when your body has been sitting for a long time.
Don't start with:
I'm never using social media again.
That can feel unrealistic.
Try:
For that hour:
You could use that hour for:
Family + food + reading + prayer + walking + hobbies.
If one hour feels easy, try extending it.
The American Psychological Association has highlighted research suggesting that reducing social-media use can improve some aspects of mental health, although individual responses vary and social media itself isn't automatically harmful for everyone.
This may be the hardest one.
Sit somewhere.
No phone.
No television.
No podcast.
No music.
No scrolling.
Just sit.
Your brain may immediately say:
I'm bored.
That's okay.
We're not required to eliminate every moment of boredom.
Constant stimulation can make ordinary quiet moments feel uncomfortable.
Learning to tolerate a little boredom can make it easier to choose what you actually want to do rather than automatically reaching for your phone.
Because the problem isn't necessarily that you lack discipline.
Modern digital platforms are designed around continuous engagement.
Infinite feeds remove natural stopping points, while recommendation systems continuously provide something new to watch or read.
When you are already tired, stressed or bored, opening the phone can become an automatic habit.
Doomscrolling can also be driven by a desire to stay informed or feel more in control during uncertain times. Harvard Health notes that doomscrolling can become a response to prolonged exposure to stressful news.
That's why simply telling yourself:
"I need more self-control."
may not be enough.
Changing the environment can help.
This is an important distinction.
You don't have to replace Instagram with:
YouTube for three hours.
Or replace TikTok with:
Reddit for three hours.
Or replace social media with:
Constant news checking.
The goal isn't merely to switch platforms.
The goal is to move from passive consumption to intentional living.
Ask yourself:
What do I actually want to do with this hour?
Then choose that activity deliberately.
The next time you reach for your phone automatically, pause.
Tell yourself:
I'll wait five minutes.
During those five minutes:
After five minutes, you can still decide whether you want to use your phone.
You're not banning it.
You're creating a gap between urge and action.
You can make a few simple changes:
Especially notifications designed primarily to bring you back into an app.
Make them harder to access automatically.
If possible, charge it somewhere away from the bed.
Give yourself a few minutes before entering the online world.
Eat without simultaneously consuming social media.
You don't need it in your hand during every five-minute break.
This is especially important for bloggers, YouTubers, business owners and creators.
You may genuinely need social media.
The solution isn't necessarily quitting.
Separate:
You have a specific purpose:
from:
You open the app without knowing what you're going to do.
Creator mode is intentional.
Consumer mode can easily turn into endless scrolling.
Before opening an app, ask:
What exactly am I here to do?
If you don't have an answer, close it.
Don't change anything.
Simply notice how often you reach for your phone.
Keep only genuinely important alerts.
Eat without scrolling.
Leave entertainment apps alone during the walk.
Choose reading, exercise, family time, prayer or a hobby.
Put the phone somewhere you can't casually reach it.
Ask:
Don't aim for perfection.
Look for improvement.
You don't need to become uninformed.
Instead of constantly checking social media, choose specific times to get news.
Use a small number of trustworthy sources.
Avoid repeatedly checking the same story simply because there is another update.
The Mental Health Foundation recommends setting boundaries around news consumption and avoiding excessive exposure when it begins to make you feel anxious or overwhelmed.
Being informed is useful.
Being continuously distressed by information you cannot act on is different.
Consider making a change if your online habits regularly interfere with:
Also pay attention to how you feel after using social media.
Do you regularly feel:
These signs don't automatically mean you have a mental-health disorder.
But they may indicate that your digital habits deserve attention.
If persistent anxiety, low mood, loss of interest, sleep problems or other emotional difficulties are affecting your everyday life, consider speaking with a qualified mental-health professional.
Don't try to solve significant mental-health symptoms simply by deleting an app.
Digital boundaries can be useful, but they are not a replacement for professional mental-health care when someone needs it.
If you ever feel unable to keep yourself safe or have thoughts of harming yourself, seek urgent professional or emergency support in your area.
Doomscrolling generally refers to repeatedly consuming negative, distressing or upsetting online information for longer than intended. It often involves repeatedly checking news or social-media feeds even when doing so is no longer helpful.
Start by identifying when and why you scroll. Turn off unnecessary notifications, create phone-free periods, remove distracting apps from your home screen and prepare alternative activities before the urge appears.
Try walking, reading, exercising, cooking, spending time with family, praying, journaling, learning a skill, gardening, cleaning, creating something or simply sitting quietly.
No.
The effects of digital media depend on factors such as what you're doing online, how much time you're spending, what it replaces and how it affects your life. Online communities can provide information, friendship and support.
The concern is particularly about problematic or excessive use and its effects on wellbeing and daily functioning, rather than assuming all screen time is harmful.
There isn't one universal number that is automatically unhealthy for every adult.
A more useful question is:
Is your screen use interfering with sleep, relationships, responsibilities, physical activity or your ability to live the life you want?
Not necessarily.
Some people find deleting certain apps helpful. Others need social media for work, education or maintaining relationships.
Try changing how you use it before deciding that you must eliminate it completely.
Scrolling provides immediate stimulation and novelty, so it can become an automatic response to boredom. If you repeatedly reach for your phone whenever there is a quiet moment, your brain can begin to associate boredom with checking the device.
There is no guaranteed number of days.
Habits vary between people. Instead of waiting for a particular day when the habit magically disappears, focus on repeatedly creating a pause between the urge to scroll and the decision to use your phone.
Using phones late at night can interfere with healthy sleep routines, while emotionally distressing content may keep you mentally engaged. Creating a screen-free period before bed can be a useful experiment.
Don't remove your main source of relaxation without replacing it.
Build a menu of alternatives:
Music + walking + reading + conversation + hobbies + exercise + prayer + quiet time.
The more options you have, the less dependent you are on one activity.
There will always be another video.
Another headline.
Another argument.
Another notification.
Another post.
Another recommended account.
Another story.
You could keep scrolling indefinitely.
But your day cannot.
Your children grow up.
Your parents grow older.
Your body needs movement.
Your goals need attention.
Your relationships need time.
Your mind needs rest.
Your faith needs nurturing.
Your real life is happening right now, not inside an endless feed.
So the next time you catch yourself scrolling without knowing why, don't attack yourself.
Put the phone down.
Stand up.
Walk outside.
Call someone you love.
Read a few pages.
Pray.
Cook something.
Learn something.
Create something.
Or simply sit quietly.
You don't have to escape the internet completely.
You just need to remember that you are allowed to choose what deserves your attention.
And sometimes the most valuable thing you can do with the next 30 minutes is not scroll at all.
This article is intended for general education and wellbeing information. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional mental-health care. Research on social media, screen use and mental health is still developing, and people's experiences can differ considerably. If digital habits or emotional symptoms are significantly affecting your sleep, relationships, work, studies or daily functioning, consider speaking with a qualified healthcare or mental-health professional.
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