Sunday, November 15, 2009

Biography of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.



Biography of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.


You will now read a set of 99 questions and answers Alhamdulillah. In case if you find any mistakes or errors in any questions or answers please reply back. InshaAllah the same would be rectified and resent to all.

p.b.u.h = peace be upon him { sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ]

1. When was the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) born?
 
 He was born on Monday, 9th or 12th Rabi Al Awwal. (Allah knows best)
2. Where was the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) born?
 In Makkah
3. What is the name of the Prophet's father? Abdullah Ibn Abdul Muttalib.
4. What is the name of the Prophet's mother? Aminah Bint Wahhab Ibn Abd Manaf Ibn Zahrah.
5. When and where did his (prophet's) father die? He died in Makkah before Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) was born.
6. What is the name of the Prophet's grandfather? Abdul Muttalib.
7. What was his granfather's position? He was the chief of his clan Bani Hashim.
8. What is the Prophet's (p.b.u.h.) lineage up to his fifth ancestor? He is Muhammad Ibn Abdullah Ibn Abdul Muttalib Ibn Hashim Ibn AbdManaf Ibn Qusai Ibn Kilab.9
. Who suckled the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? First Thuyeba, the freed slave girl of his uncle Abdul Uzza known asAbu Lahab, then Haleema Bint Abu Dhuaib, best known as Haleema AlSadiyah.
10. Who named the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? Abdul Muttalib.
11. What did Muhammad's (p.b.u.h.) mother name him? Ahmad.
12. Why did she (the Prophet's mother) choose this name? Because she saw an angel in a dream calling the new-born baby Ahmad.
13. How old was Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) when his mother died? Six years old.
14. Where did his mother take him? She took him to Yathrib (Madinah) to visit her relatives.
15. Where did his mother die? On her way back to Makkah, she died at Abwa and was buried there.
16. Who brought Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) back to Makkah? His father's slave girl, Umm Aiman (May Allah be pleased with her).
17. Who took the charge of his care? His grandfather Abdul Muttalib.
18. How long did The Prophet's grandfather take care of the Prophet Muhammad? For two years.
19. How was his (Abdul Muttalib's) behavior with Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? He loved him very much and preferred him to his own sons.
20. What did Abdul Muttalib foretell about his grandson? That he would hold a prestigious position.
21. Who took care of the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) after the death of Abdul Muttalib? His uncle Abu Talib.
22. How old was Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) when his grandfather Abdul Muttalib died? About eight years old.
23. When did Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) travel to Syria and with whom? He went to Syria with his uncle Abu Talib when he was twelve years old.
24. Who was Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her)? She was a wealthy merchant of Makkah.
25. Why did she (Khadijah) want to marry Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? Because of his truthfulness and good conduct.
26. When did she (Khadijah) marry Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? When she was 40 years old.
27. How old was Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) at the time of the marriage? He was 25.
28. What did he (the Prophet) give her (Khadijah) as Mahr (dowry)? Twenty camels.
29. Was Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her) a widow? Yes. The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) was her third husband.
30. How was Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) known in the society? He was known as Al Ameen (trustworthy) and Al Sadiq (truthful).
31. Did he get any sort of education? No, he didnt get any formal education from the society, rather he was
taught by Almighty Allah.
32. What should one say when the Prophet's (p.b.u.h.) name is mentioned? One should say Õáì Çááå Úáíå æÓáã (May the peace and blessings ofAllah be upon him).
33. How many times is the name of Muhammad mentioned in the Holy Quran? Four times.
34. What are the names of the Prophet's (p.b.u.h.) uncles? They are: Harith, Zubair, Abu Talib, Hamzah (May Allah be pleasedwith him), Abu Lahab, Ghidaq, Maqwam, Safar and Abbas (May Allah bepleased with him).
35. Did his uncle Abu Talib accept Islam? No, he died a polytheist.
36. In the New Testament by what name was the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) mentioned? By the name of Paraclete.
37. What is Kabah? It is the oldest house of worship on the earth.
38. Who built it? The Prophet Ibrahim and his son Ismael (May Allah be pleased with them).
39. How did Quraish arrange rebuilding of Kabah? They divided the work among various tribes. Each tribe wasresponsible for rebuilding a part of it.
40. Who laid the stones? A Byzantine mason called Baqum.
41. Where did the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) go into seclusion? To the Cave of Hira.
42. What was the fist stage of the revelation? True dreams.
43. When did the first revelation come down to him? On Monday, 21st of Ramadan, at night (August 10th, 610 AC). He wasforty years then.
44. Who brought it? Jibrael(A.S).
45. Who were the first to embrace Islam? Four persons: Khadijah his wife, Zaid Ibn Haritha his freed slave,Ali Ibn Abi Talib his cousin and Abu Bakr his friend (May Allah bepleased with them).
46. Who accepted Islam at the instance of Abu Bakr (May Allah bepleased with him)? Uthman Ibn Affan, Zubair Ibn
Awwam, Abdur Rahman Ibn Awf, Sad Ibn AbiWaqqaas, Talha Ibn Ubaidullah and Saeed Ibn Zaid (Umar's son-in-law)(May Allah be pleased with them).
47. Who were the ladies to accept Islam at first?
Abbas's wife Ummaul Fadl, Abu Bakr's wife Asma Bint Umais, hisdaughter Asma Bint Abi Bakr and Fatimah Bint Al Khattab Umar's sister(May Allah be pleased with them).
48. How was the Dawah done in the beginning? It was done in secret.
49. How many people embraced Islam in the early stage? About forty.
50. How many years did the call in secret continue? For three years.
51. During this period, where would the Muslims gather secretly? They would gather secretly in the house of a Muslim called Arqam tolearn about Islam and the revelations sent down to the Prophet(p.b.u.h.).
52. When did the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) start to preach Islam openly? After three years when he received the revelation to that effect.
53. What was the impact of his public preaching? The people accepted Islam increasingly.
54. What was the main miracle of the Prophet (p.b.u.h.)? The Holy Quran.
55. Did the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) perform other miracles? Yes, the splitting of the moon was one of them.
56. Who was Abu Jahl? One of the Prophet's (p.b.u.h.) uncles.
57. Name some of the disbelievers of Makkah who supported the Prophet(p.b.u.h.), but did not embrace Islam until the end. Abu Talib, Mutim Ibn Adi and Abul Bukhtari.
58. How long did Abu Talib protect the Prophet (p.b.u.h)? For 42 years – from the Prophet's childhood until he himself died.
59. Who was Mutim Ibn Adi? A chief of Makkah.
60. When did he (Mutim Ibn Adi) give protection to the Prophet (p.b.u.h.)? When the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) returned from Taif and wanted to enter Makkah.
61. When did he (Mutim Ibn Adi) die? He was killed in the Battle of Badr.
62. Who was Abul Bukhtari? He was a poet.
63. How did he (Abul Bukhtari) support the Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.)? He spoke out against the social boycott.
64. What lead the Muslims to emigrate to Abyssinia?
Their growing persecution at the hands of Quraish.
65. Which Surah lead to this emigration? Surah Az Zumar.
66. When was Abul Bukhtari killed? In the battle of Badr.
67. Who was then the King of Abyssinia? The King of Abyssinia, known as Najjashi (the Negus), during the timeof the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) was As'hama.
68. When did the first group of Muslims leave for Abyssinia? In Rajab, in the fifth year of Prophethood.
69. How many persons were there in the group? 12 men and 4 women.
70. How were the emigrants received in Abyssinia? They were received warmly and hospitably.
71. When did the second group of emigrants leave for Abyssinia? In the fifth year of Prophethood.
72. How many people formed the group? 83 men and 18 women.
73. Name a prominent companion included in this group. Ja'far Ibn Abi Talib (May Allah be pleased with him).
74. What did Quraish do? They despatched two envoys to Abyssinia to demand the extradition ofthe emigrants.
75. How did the King respond? He refused to extradite the Muslims and assured them of his full protection.
76. When did Umar (May Allah be pleased with him) accept Islam? At the age of 27.
77. Who was Bilal Ibn Rabah (May Allah be pleased with him)? He was a slave of Umayyah Ibn Khalaf.
78. What was his (Bilal Ibn Rabah's) origin? He was of Abyssinian decent.
79. What was the name of Bilal's mother? Hamama.
80. Who was Yaser (May Allah be pleased with him)? He was a slave of Abu Jahl.
81. Who was Sumayyah (May Allah be pleased with her)? She was Yaser's (a slave of Abu Jahl) wife.
82. Who was Ammar (May Allah be pleased with him)? He was Yaser and Sumayyah's only son.
83. How did Summaya (May Allah be pleased) die? Abu Jahl murderded her with a bayonet.
84. Who was Zaid Ibn Haritha (May Allah be pleased with him)?
He was a slave.
85. Who purchased him (Zaid Ibn Haritha)? Khadijah's nephew Hakim Ibn Hizam purchased him and presented him to her.
86. What did Khadijah do with Zaid Bin Haritha? She presented him to the Prophet who set him free.
87. Did Zaid Bin Haritha want to go to his parents? No, he preferred to live with the Prophet (p.b.u.h.).
88. To whom was Zaid Bin Haritha married? To Umma Aiman (May Allah be pleased with her).
89. Who was Ja'far? He was the elder brother of Ali Ibn Talib (May Allah be pleased with him).
90. Where did he (Ja'far) emigrate? To Abyssinia.
91. Who was Ali (May Allah be pleased with him)? He was the son of Abu Talib and cousin of the Prophet (p.b.u.h.).
92. When did Ali (May Allah be pleased with him) accept Islam? When he was 19.
93. What was he (Ali) called for his bravery? The "Lion of Allah".
94. Whom did Ali first marry? He first married the Prophet's (p.b.u.h.) daughter Fatimah (may Allahbe pleased with her).
95. How many sons did Ali have from her? Two sons: Hasan and Husain (May Allah be pleased with them).
96. When did Sa'd bn Abi Waqqas (May Allah be pleased with him) become a Muslim? When he was 19.
97. Where did Sa'd (May Allah be pleased with him) die? He died in Al Madinah.
98. What was Sa'd's advice to Muslims? To stand united.
99. Who was Abu Bakr's father (May Allah be pleased with him) and didhe accept Islam? He was Uthman (May Allah be pleased with him) (Abu Quhafah). Yes, heaccepted Islam during the Conquest of Makkah.

Scholarships for Indian Muslims


As salamu alaikum,
Following organizations provide scholarship to students some of them to Indian Muslims exclusively, for details please contact them directly. It is a detailed list compiled for benefit of community. Please forward the message to every one.

Scholarships for Indian Muslims :

Government of India:
http://minorityaffairs.gov.in/newsite/schemes/schemes.asp
Andhra Pradesh:
http://apsmfc.com/
Bihar:
http://minoritywelfare.bih.nic.in/Scholarships.htm
Chandigarh:
http://www.chdeducation.gov.in/Scholarship%20Schemes.pdf
Delhi:
http://www.scstwelfare.delhigovt.nic.in/
Goa:
http://www.goasocialwelfare.com/postmatrix.htm
Gujarat:
http://sje.gujarat.gov.in/english/content.asp?cid=133
http://sje.gujarat.gov.in/english/dc/centrally_sponsored_schemes_eng.htm
Himachal Pradesh:
http://www.himachal.nic.in/welfare/
Kerala:
http://www.collegiateedu.kerala.gov.in/
Madhya Pradesh:
http://www.mp.gov.in/bcwelfare/
Orissa:
http://www.orissa.gov.in/stsc/Minority_scholarship/postmatric_scholarshi...
Pondicherry:
http://socwelfare.pondicherry.gov.in/postmatricscholarships.htm
Rajasthan:
http://sje.rajasthan.gov.in/MinoScho/MinoScho.htm
Uttar Pradesh:
http://minoritywelfare.up.nic.in/
West Bengal:
http://www.wbmdfc.org/

ORGANIZATIONS

Aamir Mustafa Kidwai Trust
Contact Person: Mrs Aziza Kidwai
B-28, West End Colony, New Delhi - 110021; Tel. 011-24670009, Mob: 09868679107
Scheme: Financial assistance for pursuing higher studies to needy and meritorious persons belonging to educationally backward minorities.
Abdul Qayum Fellowship at Portland State University, USA
Provides for a student from Aligarh Muslim University or Shibli National College in India to apply for support to pursue any graduate degree
offered with the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, with preference to be given to students seeking a degree in Economics and with demonstrated
financial need. The College is providing a matching tuition waiver.
http://www.gsr.pdx.edu/ogs_funding_scholarships.html

Aga Khan Foundation (UK)
Aga Khan Foundation, Sarojini House, 6 Bhagwan Das Road, New Delhi 110001
Scheme: University study in the UK for grad and post grad programmes
http://www.akdn.org/akfisp/HTML/index.html

Agha Khan Program for Islamic Architecture
for study of architecture at MIT and Harvard
Scheme: Three scholarships awarded every year for research & investigation in Architecture of the Muslim world.
http://web.mit.edu/akpia/www/

Al-Ameen Charitable fund Trust Super tannery (I) Ltd.
Jajmau Road, Jajmau, Kanpur - 208 010 (U.P.)
Scheme: Post Metric Scholarship for higher education
Al-Ameen Scholarships
UG-12, Essel House, 10-Asaf Ali road, New Delhi 110002 OR
76A/1; Okhla Main Bazar, Jamia Nagar, New Delhi - 110025; Tel: 26845691, Fax: 26839968
Scheme: Scholarship for students securing more than 50% marks in IXth and Xth standard. Girls studying from Vth standard may also be considered.

Aligarh Alumnis Scholarships
Application Forms can be downloaded from the Federation's Website (
http://www.aligs.org ).
1. AMU Alumni Association, Australia (open to all, about 30 Scholarships)
2. AMU Alumni Association, California (open to all, about 150 Scholarships)
3. The Aligarh Alumni Association Washington DC
i) 14 Scholarships specific for students from ASSAM (Endowed by Mr. Zouqul Choudhary)
ii) 07 Sabah Memorial Scholarships (Specific for Law Students. Endowed by Mrs. Akhtar Quraishi & Dr. Sayeed Quraishi)
iii) 86 Scholarships (open to all) Endowed by different individuals.
iv) 03 Scholarships (open to all) Endowed by Mr. S. A. Raza.
4. Sultan Jahan Begum Scholarship (Oman, open to all, about 60 Scholarships)
5. Dr. S. M. Raza & Others Scholarships (Muscat, open to all)
6. Dr. E. R. Ansari Scholarships (Abu Dhabi, open to all about 8 Scholarships)
6. Begum Khalida Naheed & MSUS' Scholarship (open to all)
7. Aligarh Alumni Association of New England:
http://www.aaane.us/
Provides scholarship to AMU graduates applying for admissions to US colleges for post-graduation.

All India Talent Identification And Promotion Trust
#7, SRK Garden, Jayanagar (E), Bangalore-41 Tel. 080-56969672, 6646861
Email:
admin@aitipt.org ; aitipt@yahoo.co.in
AMM Arunachalam-Lakshmi Achi Scholarship
AMM Foundation, Parry House, Third Floor, 43 Moore Street, Chennai 600001.

Asma Foundation (Regd)
Hospital Road
Distt. Madhubani, Bihar 847211
Basic Research, Education And Development (BREAD)
Invites applications for financial aid from the students who had excelled in public exams, but could not afford to study further.
During the year 2004-05, BREAD will offer scholarships in science and technology : Engineering, Computer Science, Medicine, Veterinary Science,
Agriculture, Pharmacy, Polytechnics, Mathematics and Sciences.
BREAD and North South Foundation (NSF) have awarded over 2,000 Scholarships over the years.
The eligibility criteria include : a family income of less than Rs,38,000
(Rs.26,000 in rural areas) ; top five per cent ranks in Common Entrance Tests (CET) of 85 per cent marks in intermediate or equivalent examination
with relaxation of five per cent to rural and girl students in ranks/percentages ; rank of first attempt preferred; coming from Government or
Government aided schools only; first year students in the course of study chosen; students eligible for other scholarships will not normally be
eligible for BREAD scholarships. Shortlised candidates will be interviewed before the final selection.
The application form for Andhra Pradesh could be had from Ch. Hanumantha Rao, 204 Megha Apts, 2-1-253 Nallakunta, Hydreabad - 500 044 by sending a
self-addressed, stamped envelope with rank card of CET or mark sheet of intermediate or equivalent examination this year. The deadline for filing
of applications is July 31.
Sri M. Siva Ram Prasad, BREAD,401, Diamond House Adjacent to Amrutha Hills Punjagutta, Hyderabad-500 082

Bharat Seva Trust
12 A, Connaught Place New Delhi-110001;
Tel. 23323917
Central Wakf Council
14/173, Jam Nagar House, Shahjahan Road, New Delhi-110011;
Tel. 23384465; Fax. 23070881;
Email:
central_wakf_council@vsnl.net
Web:
http://www.wbmdfc.org/wakf/index.html

Criteria: Father's Annual income not more than Rs 75000.00 per annum.
Scheme: Scholarship to students of B.E., M.B.B.S, B.D.S, B.Sc.,
A.M.D.Sc (Alig), M.B.A., M.Sc., L.L.B., Scholarship Rs 6000.00 per annum
The Children Foundation
Students studying from the V to the XII standard
Post Box No -5007, Chennai - 600090 Tamil Nadu
info@childrenfoundation.net
Activities mainly in the state of Kerala
Provide scholarship for academically excellent student who lack the financial freedom in choosing and building their career
http://www.childrenfoundation.net/apply.html

Crescent Educational Foundation
B.61 C K Road, Chanpatana, Bangalore Dist.Karnataka, email :
crescent@asia.com ; Tel ++91-80-7251143 / 54443; Mobile ++91-9844143530; PRO: Mr. Syed
Ajmal
Criteria : Students from Muslim community (irrespective of any school of thought) but he/she must be from Chanpatana city only
Scheme: Scholarship to students of professional courses.
Dawodbhoy Fazalbhoy Muslim Educational Trust
42, Ibrahim Md. Merchant Road, Dhadah Khadak, Mumbai 400 029, E-mail:
assurfam@vsnl.com

Danish Education Trust(R)
To Karnataka students studying in the following courses in Karnataka:
Law, Journalism, Economics
or Students appearing for II year PUC and Karnataka CET 2008, seeking admission to 1st year BE & MBBS courses.
Danish Educational Trust
No. 85, Sheriff House, Richmond Road, Next to Karnataka State
Hajj Committee Office, Bangalore - 560025.
Phone: 080 – 41121281.
Email:
danishtrust@gmail.com
info@danishtrust.co.in
www.danishtrust.co.in

Dawodbhoy Fazalbhoy Muslim Educational Trust
42, Ibrahim Md. Merchant Road, Dhadah Khadak, Mumbai 400 029,
E-mail:
assurfam@vsnl.com

Delhi Wakf Board
Near Bachchon Ka Ghar, Daryaganj, Delhi 110006
Dr. Zakir Hussain Memorial Trust
4, Gul Mohar Avenue, Jamia Nagar, New Delhi-110025
Foundation for Academic Excellence and Access (FAEA)
B-41, Qutab Institutional Area, New Mehrauli Road, New Delhi - 110 016, Phone: 2696 4290, 2696 5211 Fax: 2696 4580, E-mail:
inquiry@faeaindia.org
Criteria: Undergraduate studies in Arts / Commerce / Science / Medical / Engineering and other technical and professional discipline at any
University / Institution / College of students choice anywhere in India.
Eligibility: 1. Indian Nationals. 2. Students who are currently in Class XII or have passed Class XII from a recognised board in India. Those in
the 1st year of the undergraduate course (any discipline) are also eligible to apply.
Scope: Tuition fee, maintenance allowance or hostel/mess charges and other allowances to cover travel, clothing and books. Scholarships are tenable
up to a maximum of five years. All grants are renewed annually based on Scholars good academic performance.
How to apply: Use form available at
http://www.faeaindia.org .
Education Support: portal of scholarship by HRD ministry.


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Friday, November 6, 2009

Need your help-Do for ALLAH and ALLAH will do for you

Do for ALLAH and ALLAH will do for you.

Assalaam alaykum wa rehmatullahi wa barkatahu, This is to inform all my muslim brothers/sisters that there is a masjid being contructed in our area MASJID-E-MOHAMMADIA, Yousufguda. This masjid was constructed very long back. With the increase in muslim population in that area it is getting congested. We have plan to contruct a new floor of the masjid. Estimated cost for this is around 4 lakh. Alhamdulillah, We have taken the responsibility of this construction and started to accumalate funds.
With the grace of ALLAH almighty we all must take the responsibility. I request all of you to make contributions(even small) in this good cause.
Brothers/Sisters willing to contribute can transfer funds to this bank account.

Mushtaq Hussain ICICI BankSaving bank account no.004801561098 Sec'bad branchpincode-500003 Please mention "Masjid Contruction" in transaction remarks and if possible please email me back so that I can send you back receipt of your contribution. Don't stop by reading this email if you cannot contribute.
Forward it to all your friends/relatives in India or abroad. May be one of them will contribute and you too will get the reward.

jazakALLAH
Mushtaq Hussain

YOU ARE A MASTERPIECE

YOU ARE A MASTERPIECE

A plum once said, just because a banana lover came by, I converted myself into a banana. Unfortunately,his taste changed after a few months and so I became an orange. When he said I was bitter I became an apple, but he went in search of grapes. Yielding to the opinions of so many people, I have changed so many times that I no more know who I am. How I wish I had remained a plum and waited for a plum lover.
Just because a group of people do not accept you as you are, there is no necessity for you to strip yourself of your originality. You need to think good of yourself, for the world takes you at your own estimate. Never stoop down in order to gain recognition. Never let go of your true self to win a relationship. In the long run, you will regret that you traded your greatest glory - your uniqueness, for momentary validation. Even Gandhi was not accepted by many people. The group that does not accept you as you is not your world.
There is a world for each one of you, where you shall reign as king / queen by just being yourself. Find that world... in fact, that world will find you.
What water can do, gasoline cannot and what copper can, gold cannot. The fragility of the ant enables it to move and the rigidity of the tree enables it to stay rooted. Everything and everybody has been designed with a proportion of uniqueness to serve a purpose that we can fulfil only by being our unique self. You as you alone can serve your purpose and I as I alone can serve my purpose. You are here to be you... just you.
There was a time in this world when a Krishna was required and he was sent; a time when a Christ was required and he was sent; a time when a Mahatma was required and he was sent; a time when a J.R.D.Tata was required and he was sent. There came a time when you were required on this planet and hence you were sent. Let us be the best we can be. Don't miss yourself and let the world not miss you.
In the history of the universe, there has been nobody like you and to the infinite of time to come, there will be no one like you. Existence should have loved you so much that it broke the mould after making you, so that another of your kind will never get repeated. You are original. You are rare. You are unique. You are a wonder. You are a masterpiece... your Master's piece. Celebrate your Uniqueness.